Fight, but don't Argue.

"It's only after you lose everything that you're free to do anything." - Quotation from the Fight Club Movie



It's so true about the saying "We are Our worst enemy". Like some of you, I spent a lot of my time argue with reality. With all these time I spent complaining about how bad my life is, how the world never seem good enough to me, how there are never enough good things for me, I ended up hating everything. And it just keep getting worst.

Maybe you feel the same way about certain things in your life? Being "resistance" and continue to argue with the reality does no good to anyone. It simply do not help.


LAW OF GRATITUDE #2
Non-Resistance is taking the mental attitude that
whatever is, just is.

From Hopper: "Instead of arguing. apply one of the universal laws, the law of opposites (or polarity). This law simply states that everything has two equal and opposite sides. Every situation that looks bad has an equal amount of good, if you look for it."

Some of us, like myself, probably feel "stuck" in the situation where there is this behaviour of people and circumstances we can't do anything about it. Instead of arguing, we have to learn to apply the law of gratitude. If we have something we want but don't have, or lost something / someone we had, we tend to victimize ourselves, complaining and start crying about it. This lead to the "not-enough" thinking we mentioned in the last blog entry.

Key#1 to free ourselves is to let go and move on, there are always "more" in the world. (Refresh Law of Gratitude #1 if needed). Key#2 is to think like two sides of a coin, the law of polarity tells us everything has two sides. Why do you want to only look at the bad side out of everything.

Lose the bad and keep the good!
You get to choose, increase and prolong suffering by resisting the reality, or move on, get to the good part and be thankful of what you have (and about to have) by being non-resistance.

The decision is always in your hand.